How To Find the Key to a Better Life.

How to find the key to a better life

 

 

Such a bold statement, isn’t it.  It sounds like the pot of gold being found on your journey through life that will suddenly, make you a better you!

Why do we all make things so hard & try to find the quick fix & remedy.  Have you wondered what the remedy really is?

The answer is YOU, yes you have the answer that unlocks the door to your better life.

 To see for yourself as to; How to find the key to a better life, just go & look in the mirror.  Yup, that’s it, look in the mirror.

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YOU have all the keys you need right inside of you. 

But, are your ready to put them to use properly?  Let’s see how…

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Here is you answer to: How to find the key to a better life.

SELF IMAGE.   Everyone of us has a mental visual of ourselves of what we look like, how smart we are, what are feelings are, how we behave, what our abilities are, how we react to various things, what our outlook on things are & what our personalities are. Remember, this is your own interpretation of how you are to others everyday.

If you believe:  your intimidated by others, feel inferior to everyone & not as good as they are, as talented or as smart as others, think you’re not as attractive, you don’t dress as sharp or stylish as others & oh, your hair looks terrible all the time, then that is how you’ll come across to everyone.

If you believe: you’re an outgoing, perky, positive, go getter that loves to help people, you have a lot  to offer, you look good, then that’s how you’ll come across to everyone.

Can you see where I’m going with these examples? 

Your own Self Image that you have in your mind has to have; the actions, feelings, behavior, abilities & beliefs in there of yourself.  How you carry yourself, meaning how you project yourself, more commonly called your ‘posture” – your frame of mind & attitude, is how you’ll come across to others around you.

If your self image is of negative beliefs about yourself, then you’ll project & carry yourself / posture yourself, in a negative type of manner.

If your self image is of positive beliefs about yourself, you will project & carry yourself /posture yourself, in a positive manner.

Simply put, when you ‘act like’ the kind of person you believe yourself to be, that is how you’ll be seen.  If you ‘act like’ a success, you will be a success.  If you ‘act like’ like a failure, you will find some way to fail in spite of all your good intentions.

To be able to know; How to find the key to a better life, is to know that it’s all within you.  Go look in the mirror & ask yourself, how you want to have a better life.

The answer is already inside of you, you just have to believe… 

“The only person you are destined to become, is the person you decide to be” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

I do hope you were able to get something out of this post & it gave you something to take with you on How to find the keys to a better life.  If you did enjoy this, or would like to share, please leave your comments below, I’d love to hear them.   

See you tomorrow………  

 

 

 

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8 Comments

  1. Di Downie

    Hi Linda

    Love this blog

    Love the piece where you say go and look in the mirror. As you know Im a big one for asking myself clear questions to get a clear answer

    Thanks Linda

    Di

    • Linda Frame

      Thank you Di, I’m glad to hear you heed the challenge! haha. I appreciate you taking the time to visit my blog.

  2. Morgan Steele

    love your blog Linda. You are a very wise woman! keep them coming:)

    • Linda Frame

      Morgan thank you, I really appreciate your kind words, you’re so sweet!

  3. Sue Price

    Awesome post Linda. Yes our self image is so important. I love the quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson. Thanks for another inspiring post.

    • Linda Frame

      Thank you Sue, you’re sweet to call this inspiring. Mr. Emerson had some incredible writings & quotes didn’t he.

  4. Kristin Procanick

    I appreciate the wisdom in this blog. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge in such a profound way. I love this quote – “The only person you are destined to become, is the person you decide to be” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

    • Linda Frame

      Kristin thank you. It’s almost startling to know who is really in charge of your life, isn’t it. You are already well on your way to greatness Kristin!

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