“WE NEVER HAVE ANY TIME TOGETHER ANYMORE!”
Sound familiar to anyone?
Well, it should for many of you because the longer you’re together, the bigger your family & the more work you do, it’s something that happens to most.
Eventually, one or the other of you are going to start (if you haven’t already), taking it personal.
Today, I’m going to share some thoughts that have been shared with many.
If these don’t pertain to you, remember, you can use these for any type of relationship & not just couples.
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How to create quality time together
Put your creative hat on:
Design/create you own special evening together. Now if you are a couple with children, put them to be early.
Prepare some snacks, gather your favorite beverages, turn OFF the TV, turn OFF all phones, & spend a couple of hours just talking & catching up.
Going out together:
Don’t always pick movies & dinners with friends, although that’s important too, but you need 1:1 time together.
Instead go to a coffee shop or out for breakfast & just talk. If talking is all caught up, go to a bookstore together & find an overstuffed chair & get lost in a book, knowing your best friend is there with you.
Do NOT go to bed angry:
If something is bothering you, don’t go to bed pulling on covers & hugging the mattress.
Give yourself some time before bed to think about what is really wrong, then make an honest effort to talk about it calmly.
Do not let those ill feelings simmer all night, they will be much more difficult to extract the next day.
Make your time together count:
Sometimes you may only have 5 minute communication times together.
Think about it, are those 5 minutes you get meaningful?
Be sure to make any time you have together count, that’s what’s going to be remembered for the rest of the day.
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Always, calm the air between you both, you need each other.
Any relationship between people require 100% effort from both sides.
However, when that ideal situation is not possible, give it your honest effort.
Life gets busy, but never abuse or take advantage of your best friend!
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“You never know when a moment & a few words, can have an impact on a life forever”….
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This is such a great post Linda! Although being a single mom its just me, some of the tips I can use in my future relationships, and even with my kids now. I love where you say, Any relationship between people require 100% effort from both sides. Too many times we forget it’s not always just about us, and even if we remember, our partner can forget. Thanks for the reminder and amazing advice on getting more quality time for your relationships!
You really nailed this one Kristine!! You are so right, it’s not always about us, when there are others involved. Thank you Kristine, I appreciate your input.