Do You Know What LOVE Really Is?

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I’m here to talk about the challenges, the hurdles, those ‘nothing goes right days and the set backs that jump in your way unexpectedly.  You may even feel like that ‘black cloud’ hanging over your head seems to have your name on it.

 If a particular topic of the day here doesn’t suit you or doesn’t speak to you, that’s fine, maybe tomorrows topic will seem more interesting to your issues in your life.  Why, because I have been through a lifetime of rock bottom challenges, and I want to share how you can crawl back up successfully.

When the bottom of your world falls out and you’re at rock bottom, that doesn’t mean you have to fall too.  Remaining rock bottom is a choice.  You do not have to stay there, you can get up, reassess, and begin the climb back up.  OR, you can stay there, you’re decision, your choice.

But, regardless of what you decided to do, never loose your faith, your belief in yourself, your hope, or your love.

Wait, what?  You read that right, also “never loose your faith, belief, your hope, or your love”.

Now, why would “love” sound surprising.  Maybe you aren’t aware of what love really is.  Maybe you’ve have the wrong idea all this time about what love is.

First of all, let me tell you what love isn’t:

Love is not about sex, love is about what you feel within yourself about something or someone.

Love isn’t about being inseparable, it’s about being true to one another when you are separated.

Love isn’t even a “choice”, but to stay in love is.

Love isn’t even what you say, it’s what you do.  

You should start seeing a pattern here.  Love isn’t about sex, love is what you DO. 

For example:

LOVE :

Is never jealous.

Is never envious.

Is never arrogant.

Is very patient.

Is always kind.

Is never boasting.

Is never selfish.

Is never conceited.

Is never rude.

Never demands having your own way.

Is not irritable or touchy.

Does not hold grudges.

Will hardly even notice when others do it wrong.

Is never glad about injustice.

Celebrates whenever the truth wins out.

Is loyal no matter what the cost.  (Dogs are the BEST example of this).

Will always believe.

Will always expect only the best.

Will always defend.

Goes on forever.

So you can see, even if you’re at the rock bottom of your own life, there are things that you will always have: Faith, Belief, Hope and LOVE.

If you tend to “run from love”, you have the wrong information about what love really is.

Love IS your faith, your belief, your hope, from within yourself.  Get the meaning of love right, and know you always have someone to love.

“Love is not what you say, love is what you do”………

See you tomorrow

 

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