HELLO everyone, thank you for visiting my blog today. My name is Linda Frame and I am here everyday with: DAILY ADVERSITY SUPPORT
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I’m here to talk about the challenges, the hurdles, those ‘nothing goes right’ days and the set backs that jump in your way unexpectedly. You may even feel like that ‘black cloud’ hanging over your head seems to have your name on it. If a particular topic of the day here doesn’t suit you or doesn’t speak to you, that’s fine, maybe tomorrows topic will seem more interesting to your issues in your life. Why, because I have been through a lifetime of rock bottom challenges, and I want to share how you can crawl back up successfully.
GETTING HOME FROM THE HOSPITAL AFTER MAJOR SURGERY FROM LIFE CHANGING INJURIES, IS ANOTHER ADVENTURE IN ITSELF.
YOU HAVE A LOT OF VISITORS, MANY WONDERFUL PEOPLE DOING THINGS FOR YOU, AND SEEING PEOPLE TOO YOU MAY NOT HAVE SEEN FOR A WHILE. BUT, IT ALSO GIVES YOU A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE ON MANY THINGS THAT MAY NOT HAVE STRUCK YOU BEFORE.
IN ONE OF THE GROUPS THAT CAME BY TO WISH ME WELL, I WAS ABLE TO ZERO IN ON SOMETHING THAT MAY NOT HAVE BEEN NOTICED BY SOME OF THE FOLKS, BUT I SAW IT VERY CLEARLY.
I REALIZE AFTER GOING THROUGH LIFE CHANGING INJURIES, MULTIPLE SURGERIES AND DAILY REHAB / RECOVERY RITUALS, I’VE CHANGED. I LOOK AT AND HEAR THINGS DIFFERENTLY THAN I DID BEFORE THE ACCIDENT 6 MONTHS AGO. I HAVE A DIFFERENT SENSE OF LIFE, I AM MORE PATIENT, I LISTEN BETTER, TALK LESS, AND MY LIFE GOALS ARE NOW CRYSTAL CLEAR.
BEING STRONGER AS A PERSON, FROM ALL I HAVE BEE THROUGH, LISTENING TO OTHERS AND OBSERVATIONS ARE ALSO QUITE DIFFERENT.
I NOW SEE WHOLE PACKAGES OF INTERACTIONS BETWEEN PEOPLE DIFFERENTLY THAN I USE TO.
HERE IS AN EXAMPLE OF WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT:
AFTER LISTENING TO A CONVERSATION BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE OF A GROUP THEY CAME BY TO WISH ME WELL THIS MORNING, I WAS STUNNED.
INTERACTING WITH OTHERS COMES IN A 2PART PROCESS AND YOUR WORDS AS WELL AS YOUR ACTIONS SHOULD MATCH. IF THEY DONT, THEN YOU HAVE A MAJOR PROBLEM.
SO, WHAT I’M GOING TO SAY TODAY IS VERY SHORT AND TO THE POINT:
THE WAY YOU TREAT PEOPLE SAYS A LOT ABOUT WHO YOU ARE. BE CAREFUL. YOUR ACTIONS ARE SCREAMING OVER YOUR WORDS.
“YOUR ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN YOUR WORDS”………
See you tomorrow
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