“I Don’t Need Any Help With My Relationship!” | How to determine if your relationship is headed for trouble.

No one wants to face any problems in there relationship.

Most people think “it’ll blow over.”

Well, I hope you’re right but it just may not be that simple.

Not every rough patch or skid needs a marriage counselor, sometimes it just takes an awareness.

There are signs that float to the top that are usually contributors to little issues.

Those little issues however add up, one after another & grow into to bigger issues that begin to divide two people.

Now I’m not talking about major psychological manifestations between two individuals in cohabitation, that need professional help.

No, that stuff is what the marriage counselors get paid the big bucks for.

I am simply talking about people getting along.

These thoughts I’m going to leave you with are common sense thoughts that can lead to problems.

These things can effect those who care about each other as friends, partners, & /or beyond.

Things that can lead to problems:

An insensitivity to another person’s feelings.

The tendency to hold grudges.

Having a inflexible spirit.

An inability to forgive little things.

A refusal to try to see situations from the other persons point of view.

An undisciplined thought kind of life.

A refusal to say “I’m sorry.”

If you’ve noticed, these are one-sided feelings that are unwilling to change.

All relationships of any type are give & take, 50/50 & they involve compromise.

So the next time you get your feathers ruffled & say “I don’t need to apologize…”

Don’t be so one-sided, there are 2 people involved & 2 types of feelings.

But what is really the issue here?

There really is no right or wrong here, life is not about keeping score about who’s right or who’s wrong.

Everyone makes mistakes, you are no different than anyone else.

Stop those selfish feelings that only lead to problems.

Be more open minded, giving & helpful to others.  Treat others as you would want to be treated.

Most of all, communicate & be honest.  You just might be surprised what you find out.

“Happiness is not something ready made.  It comes from your own actions”……

See you tomorrow…

 

 

I do hope you have enjoyed this message today & it has inspired you do stand up & make a difference in your own life.  Please feel free to leave me a comment below to share how this has made you think about your own situation.

 

 

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