“My Kids Are So Out of Control!” | How you can regain cooperation from your children.

 

 

 

“MY KIDS ARE SO OUT OF CONTROL!”

 

 

 

 

 

Does this sound familiar to you or someone you know?

 

It should, because it does seem that children are out of control today, doesn’t it.

 

 

The ONLY one who has the right to control you kids or grandchildren is YOU.

 

 

 

 

Where does it come from?

 

Simply, from lack of respect & communication, on both sides.

 

 

 

 

 

So, instead of dwelling on what we know, let’s talk about some ideas to help this issue.

 

 

I’ve complied a few thoughts for families.  These may not work on all, but they are worth a try to start things in motion.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

HOW TO REGAIN COOPERATION FROM YOUR CHILDREN

 

*This 1st starts with communication between you, that you’ll work together on these*

Family Commitments

If I make a mess, I’ll clean it up.

I will treat others with respect.

I’ll pick up my clothes & keep my room neat.

I will not use bad language.

I will not lie.

I will not keep secrets.

I will not hit others.

I’ll talk to Mom, Dad or Grandparents, about my problems.

I’ll do my chores & homework, before I go out to play.

I will not use drugs, & if I know somebody who is using drugs, I’ll find them help at home.

I will turn off my phone during all mealtimes.

These types of commitments vary depending on your particular situation, but they do work.

The key is to sit with your children & talk about them.

These are called “teachable” moments for them.  It’s you opportunity to work together on these issues & made an agreement to do these faithfully, together.

You see, the qualities listed above, are not to just “get control” of your child, these are qualities for your children to carry on with them throughout their life.

“How wonderful it is, that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world”  –  Anne Frank

 

 

See you tomorrow…

 

 

 

I do hope you have enjoyed this message today & it has inspired you do stand up & make a difference in your own life.  Please feel free to leave me a comment below to share how this has made you think about your own situation.

 

 

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