“OH JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!”
WOW, who’s heard this before.
Being in a relationship is equal work & very rewarding IF you both act appropriately with respect.
You promise to respect one another in the beginning, but life happens & one of you let your guard down.
Sure I’ve hear the words: “they’ll understand & get over it, they know me”…
However, the last person (if any) you should ever disrespect, is the one whom you’re in a relationship with.
The one who got in that relationship with you in the first place is the one who trusted you the most.
So let’s take a look at a few, (of hundreds) inappropriate comments that should never be done in your relationship, of ANY kind.
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Here are some inappropriate relationship behaviors
Assigning blame
Mind reading
Laying on guilt
Using “you” inappropriately: “you” always, “you” never
Making assumptions
Rejecting or discrediting your spouse
Bringing up the past
Calling your spouse inappropriate names
Laying on the guilt
Attacking their family
Making fun of or putting down your spouse
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Respect is the key to ANY type of relationship.
Love is not just about sex, it’s about honoring, loyalty, admiration, friendship, honesty, partnership, understanding & respect.
Yes, any relationship is 50-50 & if you’re not providing your 50%, you cannot blame your partner.
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“Do or do not. There is no Try”…
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I’m so grateful that I’m in a relationship with someone who gives me my space when I need it. We’re pretty good with that. In the past, I have committed some of those relationship “crimes” that you listed above like expecting my partner to read my mind and bringing up the past. Working on it!
It’s all a learning process, but realization is the first step to changing something. Thanks for another great post, Linda. 🙂
Fortunately, you found an incredible being that is open, honest & non assuming. You 2 are beautiful together & I love that about you both. I’m sorry you went through the wrong way first, but I’ve through it too. You are now soooo blessed. Thank you Heather for sharing.
Love this post Linda! This one really hit home, and is an awesome reminder of what is completely unacceptable in what should be one of the most important relationships you have in life. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you Kristine, these are all unacceptable in a relationship. You only live once & should be the BEST years of your life. Thanks.
I learnt sooo much from my marriage split – Communication, language, never stop appreciating your partner, great share thanks Linda
Thank you Helen.