“TELL ME HOW YOU WOULD FEEL, IF IT HAPPENED TO YOU?”
Everyone reacts differently to situations.
Sometimes just watching someone else react to something enables you to see for yourself yet another reaction.
When you get hurt, it’s very hard to get past sometimes & for many they never do get past it & it becomes a “bitter” memory for them.
I can tell you all day to move on & let it go, but I have another idea for you.
I’m going to share something with you to give you another angle to see what happens with bitterness.
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How to get past feeling bitter!
Bitterness paralyzes your life,
Love, empowers it.
Bitterness blinds your life,
Love, opens you eyes.
Bitterness imprisons your life,
Love, releases it.
Bitterness sickens your life,
Love, heals it.
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As you can now see, bitterness is damaging to you & your soul.
Why would you want to carry around a load of bitterness, instead of a load of love.
Let go, forgive, move on.
The only way you can move forward, is to dissolve your bitterness, let go, forgive & change all that energy into a more positive life.
You are the ONLY one that can do this.
Remove the bitterness, forgive & move forward in your life.
Remember, do NOT look back, you’ve already been there, just keep moving forward.
Just let go!
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I know bitterness can be so damaging. What is hard for me is when I have to see the person on a fairly regular basis that made me feel so bad. It’s one of the hardest things for me to do – to forgive. For me, it had helped me believe this person is mentally sick, that he can’t help the way he is.
You are in a difficult position Beth when those that have hurt you deeply wind up being close by, same town, regular customers or even relatives. However, remember, you may see them again, but you don’t have to return to that status again unless you want to.
As for your method of “believing this person is mentally sick”, be very careful with this. It may work for a time for you, however, unless it truly was their fault 100% & you truly had nothing to do with it, you may be falsely labeling someone that may not be “mentally sick” at all. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Great post. Thank you for the insight. I had similar problems in the past and have found that breath work has been super helpful. Thank you.
Thank you Joshua, I’m glad to hear you have found a means of handling the issues. I appreciate your insight.
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Love and light is so important. Your post reminds me of feeling…. bitter towards an old friend and right now I have sent them Love and well wishes. Thank you.
Michelle, I’m so proud of you for taking the high road. No one is 100% perfect, right or wrong. A conflict doesn’t happen, unless it happens to at least 2 people. By sending them well wishes is just being the kind loving person you are. It doesn’t mean you have to go back there again, unless you want to. But to extend kindness & thoughtful words, thoughts & prayers, shows it’s just who you are. Well done Michelle, thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Well done Michelle, I applaud you for taking the high road of good sense. I know you feel better & all must be well now within yourself. Thank you for sharing.
I spent a long time feeling bitter after I got hurt… and did some crazy things in that ‘bitterness’ fortunately – I found a better way – great share Linda 🙂
The only way to move forward is to accept your role in what happened during those times, ask forgiveness of yourself & leave that behavior permanently. Only then will you be able to function moving forward is to actually change who you were & your thoughts/reactions. If you continue the same patterns, you haven’t found a better way, instead you’ve only found a replacement. Move forward with an open mind. Thank you for your thoughts.
It’s very difficult to truly understand how one feels unless they have been through the actual hurt. Holding on to bitterness only changes the person “holding” the bitterness, & completely distorts their thinking & understanding of what happened in the first place. When someone lashes out in bitterness, the hurt & act of revenge forever lays within the vision of the innocent person receiving that act & will never be forgotten. Finding a better way, should also be only a “healthy” way, otherwise if those actions & habits are revisited at any time, that “better” way was only used as a tool. Good luck Helen.