Why Can’t We Just Be Alike? | How to identify the areas that people are different.

 

 

WHY CAN’T WE JUST BE ALIKE?

 

 

 

 

 

Although we are all born practically with the same parts, no 2 people are really alike.

“Oh, but my ___ & I are just alike, we think the same, like the same things….”

 

 

Your thoughts,  preferences &  other similarities may be the same to you, but they are merely only coincidences .

 

 

Our differences come from our behaviors, thinking, & more of the level of our mental capabilities & neurological (brain) input / output.

 

 

So, what that means is, although we are “alike in so many ways”, we really are different.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

HOW TO IDENTIFY THE AREAS THAT PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT

 

 

 

 

Leaper or Looker:

Leapers take risks – when they see an opportunity the want to jump on it before it’s too late.

Lookers are more cautious – they like to carefully chaeck everything out before making a decision.

 

 

 

Extrovert or Introvert:

Extroverts – love crowds, are energized by people.

Introverts – would rather spend time in solitude or with a close friend.

 

 

 

Outliner or Detailer:

Outliners – have a general focus & look at the big picture.  They think in terms of direction & getting things done.

Detailers – look at the ‘nuts & bolts’.  Their concern is how to get things done.

 

 

 

Spender or Saver:

Spenders – if they have extra money, they want to spend it on themselves, on others, on worthy causes, on anything.

Saver – if they have extra money, they want to put it away for a rainy day.  They do not like to spend unless it very important.

 

 

 

Planner or Lexer:

Planners – love structure with everything organized & neatly packaged.  They like schedules & deadlines.

Lexers – bend with the flow of life & take things as they come.  They tend to be spontaneous & laid back, loose ends don’t bother them because they believe everything will work out.

 

 

 

Scurrier or Ambler:

Scurriers – are always busy.  Speed & efficiency are their motive & motto, they accomplish as much as they can as fast as they can.

Amblers – take their time & set their own pace.  They might do as much as a scurrier, but they enjoy what they do.

 

 

 

Thinker or Feeler:

Thinkers – focus on facts & principles.  They base decisions on objective date & tend to be task oriented.

Feelers – focus on people & emotions.  They base their decisions on subjective data & tend to be relationship oriented.

 

 

 

Dreamer or Worker:

Dreamers – are creative people who love to come up with ideas.  They are optimistic & oriented toward the future.

Workers – are practical.  They like to take other people’s ideas & make them happen.  They tend to be realistic & focus on the present.

 

 

 

Collector or Tosser:

Collectors – gather things, they hate to throw anything away because they know they just might need it sometime. 

Tossers – get rid of things, they hate clutter & they insist that if you haven’t used something recently, you probably never will.

 

 

 

Juggler or Holder:

Jugglers – are multi-channeled & can deal with may things simultaneously.

Holders – are single-channeled & can only deal with one, maybe two things at a time.  If they try to do more, they become stressed & overwhelmed.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Everyone is different & unique. A Jack rabbit or a Tortoise…

 

We create balance, variety & challenges.   There’s no right or wrong type.

 

 

Just BE you!

 

 

Create your differences & talk about them too.

 

Embrace what & who you are, stay consistent & always keep moving forward.

 

 

So, find out who you are & be at peace with it.

 

 

 

 

 

“First learn to love yourself, instead of loving the idea of other people loving you”…..

 

 

 

 

 

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