Is Your Attitude Affecting Others?

by Linda Frame, RN-Medical Content Writer Freelance on March 16, 2015

HELLO everyone, thank you for visiting my blog today.  My name is Linda Frame and I am here everyday with:    DAILY ADVERSITY SUPPORT 

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I’m here to talk about the challenges, the hurdles, those ‘nothing goes right days and the set backs that jump in your way unexpectedly.  You may even feel like that ‘black cloud’ hanging over your head seems to have your name on it.  If a particular topic of the day here doesn’t suit you or doesn’t speak to you, that’s fine, maybe tomorrows topic will seem more interesting to your issues in your life.  Why, because I have been through a lifetime of rock bottom challenges, and I want to share how you can crawl back up successfully.

 

 

When things go wrong, the first test is how we deal with it, which shows the type of person we are. 

 

But, when you feel like the world is falling apart around you and your overwhelmed, do you sometimes feel, you’re entitled to have a bad attitude?  No, you should not, you should remain who you are and deal with things as they come along. As I said above, how you handle things says a lot about who you are.

 

 

 

 

 

Our attitude at the beginning of the day, will affect the outcome of the day more than anything else.

 

Our attitude toward life, determines life’s attitude toward us.

 

Our attitude toward others, will determine their attitude toward us.

 

Before we can achieve the kind of life we want, we must think, act, walk, talk, and conduct ourselves in ways characteristic of who we ultimately wish to become.

 

The higher we go in any organization of value, the better the attitude we’ll find.

 

Hold successful, positive thoughts in our minds, these will make all the difference in the world.

 

If we always make a person feel needed, important, and appreciated, he / she will return this attitude to us.

 

Part of a good attitude is to look for the best in new ideas.  So, look for good ideas everywhere.  We can find them in the most wonderful places:    on the bumpers of cars, on restaurant menus, in books, in travel, and especially out of the mouths of children.

 

Don’t broadcast personal problems.  It definately won’t help you, and it certainly won’t help others.

 

Don’t talk about your health, unless it’s good.

 

Radiate the attitude of well-being.  Don’t be embarrassed to share visions, desires, and goals.

 

Treat everyone with whom you come in contact with, with all the rights, duties, and privileges of equality.  The “golden rule” still applies:  Do unto others, as you would have them do unto you. 

 

 

 

 

These all sound familiar don’t they.  Many of us were raised to follow these daily thoughts.  If you were not, that’s okay, read them again because they apply to everyone.  You will find that these daily thoughts are true in every aspect of your life.

 

 

 

“The way you treat people says a lot about who you are.  Be careful.  Your actions are screaming over your words”……………

 

 

 

See you tomorrow

 

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{ 9 comments }

Kristin Procanick March 16, 2015 at 2:09 pm

This is such a great post. Our attitude is everything and it impacts those around us. Just like we don’t want to be around the negative people who complain and are disgruntled about life – we don’t want to be that person!

Thanks for such a wonderfully written explanation and value in this post.

Linda Frame February 22, 2016 at 12:02 pm

Kristin, thank you for your kind, sweet words, I really appreciate you. Others attitudes are so contagious & if you get one person with a sour attitude, it really does affect everyone else. I love your insights, they always hit home!

Annette Procanick March 16, 2015 at 3:18 pm

Attitude is so very important. You gave some excellent tips on how to keep our attitudes in check. Great post ~ thanks!!

Linda Frame March 29, 2015 at 3:57 pm

Thanks Annette, I appreciate your visit to my blog.

Helen Lingard March 16, 2015 at 4:03 pm

Great blog Linda, I can’t bear to see people ‘voicing’ their negative.. yes confide in someone but don’t tell the whole world… thanks LInda :_)

Sue Price March 17, 2015 at 4:08 am

Great advice Linda. I am pretty upbeat most of the time but there are time when I let things get to me. I know and understand the importance of having a good vibration but occasionally I do not. Awesome post.

Erica Udeanu March 17, 2015 at 8:34 am

When I read your words I feel as if I’m reading Napoleon Hill. What a gift you have!

I love this question: “When you feel like the world is falling apart around you and you’re overwhelmed, do you sometimes feel, you’re entitled to have a bad attitude?”

I know so many people who would answer yes to this question … and then again I know so many who would rise above their situation and be gracious and kind no matter what. You’re one such person Linda.

Thank you for sharing and being such a beacon of light for those who are facing adversity.

Linda Frame March 29, 2015 at 3:56 pm

Wow, I am very honored to be compared to Napoleon Hill, thank you Eric word all the kind words, I am very humbled by your words & your words caused me to tear up. Why?:

I’ve had, just like all of us, challenges, struggles, bad breaks, losses, and disappointments in my life. I was very blessed to be raised in a family to learn how to handle things. Even my nursing profession too of having to handle & respond in a split second to save lives, all those years working in ER / Trauma with the most horrific of incidents, also helped me grow & be positive because I had to be for others.

But, when my accident occurred last summer & MY life changed in an instant, that was a toughest test of all. I could have easily answered that question about ‘feeling entitled to have a bad attitude because my world fell apart & I’m overwhelmed”, with a yes. But, I couldn’t, my family needed my support, my sick dog was waiting at home for me, my mortgage was due, all of my bills were due, I just realized I had lost 2 jobs because now physically I couldn’t work, I was suddenly broke & the list goes on & on.

Pulling you attitude together is a must because you need to think straight. I had no body function during that initial time from the accident, but my mind was 100%. So you work with what you have & do what needs to be done to somehow come back. In other words, I’ve learned the hard way that attitude is everything whether in business, or life, it’s all the same.

Thank you Erica, you are such a special person, I know we all agree on that. I appreciate your kind words & will hold them tightly..

Gail Kendig March 17, 2015 at 6:42 pm

I’m happy to say that my attitude is always effecting others…in a positive way of course..thanks for the Post Linda.

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