Sounds easy enough doesn’t it? We all do this right? Hahaha, not so fast. If this was really that easy and we were all being the type of person you’d want to meet, then why are so many people struggling.
Yes struggling, for what? So many are struggling and looking for
support, strength, advise, direction, answers, honesty, compassion … Not everyone around you has those qualities and maybe they are having issues too.
That person you just spoke to may be having medical issues, maybe they are in an enormous amount of debt, maybe their family member is sick or even their best firend recently died, maybe they are without enough money to buy gas for their vehicle or lunch for themselves. Maybe, they are going through a separation or divorce, and you knew absolutely nothing about any of these possibilities. You do not always know what someone else right next to you is going through.
This message doesn’t mean you should be a hero, a celebrity, someone famous or some extreme individual that appears to have all the answers and money they need. No, no, no, read this message again – ‘Be the type of person you’d want to meet’ … to other people.
Be humble, reliable, honest, hard worker, helpful, caring, sincere, compassionate … for starters. These are the basics of a stable good person. If you really are unsure of what type of person you would like to meet and be around, then think about it honestly. Being right all of the time, being arogent, hateful or selfish is not becoming or warming to anyone.
Why is this important? You may some day need someone with those very qualities of being humble, caring, compassionate and if you don’t have them, ask yourself, why would anyone want to meet you …
Be the type of person you’d want to meet … linda frame
